dear Boys | one.

7:07am. thursday, march 27th, 2025:

you did not pose a direct

question, so i am wary to respond.

but you keep pinging me,

on every dating app i pop up on,

+ i can probably set the record

at least a little straighter here.

i get misjudged + misunderstood

more than not. it's a regular part

of my social interactions.

i have never had a "a Man has

to make this amount of money

or drive this kind of car or have

this kind of job or Live in this

kind of a place" ideal or checklist.

i think modern Men have been

socially programmed to believe

that “high-value Women” all act

like stuck-up bitches with

checklists + designer bags.

i believe that this is a lie

engineered by evil-himself,

but you have to establish your

own beliefs with your own whys.

to me, a High-Value Woman

is filled with patience + Grace

+ kindness. she is demanding of

herself + works hard to give

generously to others.

selfish is ugly, not bougie.

as far as i'm concerned, i don't

care what a Man does for income

as long as it's morally + ethically

sound + he is fulfilled by his work.

i'm built different, [insert name].

you know that. but i don't think

you have any grasp on what that

really means. i don't think like

other Women, therefore, The Man

who wants to interact with me

on a deeper level is going to have

to throw out the "dating by status

quo” playbook.

i am a high-functioning, 150+ iq

genius. so that's a big part of the

conversation that rarely gets

revealed. i don't talk about that

part of my existence with people

bc it sounds braggadocios

+ absurd. but it is simply my Truth.

dating is especially challenging

for me because Men, in their design,

need to feel stronger

than the Woman they pursue.

so the Way i am does not make

me an easy candidate for pursuit.

hope this helps clear the air.